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We call this “tactical thinking.”Īs Professor Dorie Clark pointed out in her course on Strategic Thinking, as you’re promoted, “you stop being evaluated on whether you can implement a task or a project and you start being asked to conceptualize it, and make determinations about what’s valuable for you, the company, and other employees to be spending their time on.”
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When you’re starting out, you probably spend most of your time trying to figure out how to do your job functions, but not why you’re doing it. What does it mean to “be more strategic”? But in reality, it's one of the most valuable steps you can take to advance your career.Īnd if you're being asked to improve these skills, it's a sign that your company sees real potential in you. Then you went back to your desk, and… googled this article.įirst thing’s first: don’t panic! The request to become more strategic might sound vague or even intimidating.
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Maybe when I get it I’ll realize it’s not all it’s cracked up to be, but for now, I don’t need you…but I want you.Maybe in your most recent review, your boss said they wanted you to work on your “strategic mindset.” So naturally, you nodded, smiled, said you’d get right on that. A new experience is always desirable and while it’s never perfect, the want for it is still there. I want to learn how it is to confide in someone and know days will come when we don’t want to look at each other. I want to learn what it takes to now share and be involved with another person. I want to experience what it’s like to have a want fulfilled, to adapt to the changes. I want you to be there for the good times, the bad times, the stressed out times, and the times when words can’t even help. I don’t need you to be there, just like I don’t need a bigger apartment, but I want you to be there. They’re desirable for all the right and wrong reasons. I’m happy with the things I need and I’ll always have those things(they better not get rid of matcha).īut that’s what makes wants, wants. But is my happiness dependent on those things? No. Would they make me happier? Sure, they’ll add some happiness. I want a bigger apartment, a tea cart and specifically, a lifetime supply of strawberries. I need Matcha Green tea, lemon water, and my journal to survive. There’s a difference between a need and a want. I want you to add to the life I’ve built for myself, not create one for me. I want you to be there at the end of the day, because when you are, it feels even more like home. I want you to remind me what it’s like to share my bed, my personal space, my sacred space with someone and feel completely comfortable. I want to not have you just hold my hand, but reach for it because that’s where it belongs. I want to receive a cup of tea from you after a long and tiring day, without being asked, and feel the love and care. I want you to look at me in my bright eyes and see the smile come across your face. I’m capable of handling my own and satisfying my needs.
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I don’t need you for what you can do for me, in any way. I actually enjoy the peace and quiet of my little apartment and not having an obligation to share that with anyone. I don’t need you to be there at the end of the day when I get home. I’ve slept in my bed alone for years and I honestly don’t even know how to share it. It’s been involved with so many people that don’t appreciate the language of physical touch, it would probably flinch at the graze of yours. Trust me I’ve fallen for those three words many times before. Three words, that so simple, really don’t mean anything if there aren’t any actions behind it. Not even to sound big headed, but I don’t need your words to validate me. I’m aware of how I look with my bright eyes and bushy hair. I don’t need you to tell me I’m beautiful.